I’ve been stimming for 29 years, and for the first 28 of them, all my stim toys were improvised. I bit my nails, I chewed on paperclips, I’d dismantle anything that came apart, I made every sheet of paper I encountered into Origami; I even learned how to solve a Rubik’s cube, just so I could fiddle with it. These days I have toys that are actually made to fiddle with. I think I drained my entire bank account when I discovered Stimtastic! I have a large collection, mostly because I use different toys for different situations. So I present to you, my Essential Stim Toys!
1. Trivet Keychain: This was a DIY project, and one of the first things that I ever posted on Tumblr. It’s just a silicone trivet that I cut into strips and put on a keychain. The texture is satisfying to rub and squish, plus, you can suction your fingers into the hexagons. It’s a really cool feeling!
2. Tangle– I keep Tangles in all of my pockets, mostly because they’re quiet, and I can use them with one hand. They’re not something I use every day, but they serve a very specific purpose.
3. Rubik’s Cube: Don’t let anyone tell you that you need to be able to solve a Cube to be able to play with them. With their bright colors and moving parts, they’re very satisfying to fiddle with. Also, don’t let anyone tell you that solving a Rubik’s Cube is impossible- it’s a very linear process that’s easy to memorize until muscle memory kicks in. YouTube is a great resource!
4. Squishies: These also come everywhere with me, but unlike the Tangles, I’m constantly using them. I have them in a variety of sizes and textures, and I love them all. There’s just something about them that are very soothing, and goodness knows I need that.
5. Howie: The one on the left is Howie. I got him from Target’s discount bin, mostly because he was soft. I didn’t think he could get much better than that, but I decided to do an experiment and de-stuff him, and then fill him with flax seed. Now he’s weighted, and he can be heated up in the microwave. He’s my couch buddy and I love him. Unfortunately, so do my cats, so sometimes I have to share.
6. Spinner: I will fight anyone who says Fidget Spinners are just toys, just for kids, or just a fad. Fidget spinners, especially metal ones, have a weight unlike anything else. And shifting that weight from hand to hand really helps me focus.
7. Marble Maze: My marble maze is always in my pocket. The one I have is made of flannel, and the more I use it, the softer it gets! It also has foxes on it, which is always a plus. The combination between the softness of the fabric, and the kinetic motion of the marble makes it that much more satisfying, and even better, it covers more stim needs.
There we are, all of my essential Stim Toys! These, plus other sensory tool are what make up my Toolbeast, so I can function at my best when I’m out of the house.
Do you have any favorite Stim Toys? Have you found an awesome improvised Stim Toy? Favorite Store? Cool new DIY? I’m always looking for new sources of stim, so let me know!